In order to receive anything that God has promised you, you must believe and have faith that a thing is so, especially in Him. Now, that you know the old man must die so the new man can live, you'll be walking in your new kind of life, your dream life before you know it. It begins in your mind, emotions, and mouth so use the tools God has given you and become a light bearer for others, there is purpose in your situation. You're situations can bring glory to God so just do it and be blessed.
BREAKFORTH!