When it comes to marriage, the system is biased towards wives and mothers, and if the marriage doesn't work out, a man's happiness, assets, children, and sometimes his freedom are at stake. Therefore, a man cannot afford to get this one decision wrong. That's part of my motivation for writing this relationship guide. Many young men who grew up without a father figure, like myself, often go through the process of entering into a relationship without proper guidance. You see all the "Red Flags" but don't understand their impact on your future. And, if a breakup occurs, most men end up unhappy, separated from their children, financially injured, and with a lifetime of regret. The result is what we see in many of the communities throughout the inner cities: broken homes and fatherless children being raised by broken women. As stated before, you saw the "Red Flags" but didn't understand how they would impact your future. My guide aims to help men identify 'Red Flags' that may indicate incompatibility in marriage with someone exhibiting these traits. By being aware of these warning signs, men can avoid contributing to the epidemic of broken homes and create a healthier, happier future for themselves and their families.